Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts

Thursday, March 19, 2026

19 Years

It's been 19 years since we returned from overseas. In fact, living overseas seems like a lifetime ago. I've had the opportunity to visit overseas a few times, including, China/Hong Kong, Ukraine, Israel, and Pakistan. (Plus a western Caribbean cruise).

We've been home longer than we lived overseas. That is surreal.

So much has changed in these past 19 years. 

I've been a pastor for nearly 19 years at the same church.

Both daughters have grown up, got married, and have their own lives.

I'm a grandpa. Poppy, actually.

I've published three books.

I've lost too many family members.

I gained more than 80K followers on TikTok.

One thing is constant; God is in control. He has been so good to us!

Boynes in 2007

The Boynes, Ellises & Coffeys in 2024
(The little blond girl was a visitor)



Tuesday, March 10, 2026

Mayflower Ancestry Discovered

Every family has stories tucked away in old records and forgotten names. Recently, our family uncovered one that reaches all the way back to 1620. After careful genealogical research, we can now confirm that our lineage traces directly to three Mayflower lines: the Tilleys, John Howland, and William and Mary Brewster.


Seeing these names appear in our own family tree is both humbling and surreal. These were real people—ordinary men and women whose courage and faith shaped the earliest chapters of American history.

The Tilleys

Our line includes John and Joan Tilley and their daughter Elizabeth, one of the few young women to survive the first winter. Elizabeth later married fellow passenger John Howland, and together they became ancestors to thousands. Through her, the Tilley legacy lives on in our family.

Elizabeth Tilley Howland

John Howland

Perhaps the most dramatic story in our lineage belongs to John Howland, the young man who fell overboard during a storm and miraculously survived by grabbing a trailing rope. Bradford recorded the event, noting how close he came to being lost at sea. His survival changed history—and eventually shaped our own family line.

John Howland

The Brewsters

We are also connected to Elder William Brewster and his wife Mary, central figures in the Pilgrim story. Brewster served as the spiritual leader of the group, guiding them through persecution in England, refuge in Leiden, and the perilous journey to the New World. Their steadfast faith helped anchor the early colony.


William Brewster

A Legacy to Carry Forward

This discovery doesn’t elevate us above anyone else, but it does deepen our appreciation for the people who came before us. Their resilience, conviction, and willingness to risk everything for a new beginning now form part of our own family story.

History has always been meaningful. But now, for us, it feels personal.

NOTE: There are more than 10 million descendants in the US alone; 30-35 million worldwide.

Wednesday, December 17, 2025

Christmas, Again

 This will be my 62nd Christmas, but I confess, I don't really remember my first several!

This will be my 19th Christmas at Immanuel as their pastor.

Christmas, for pastors, or at least for me, is stressful. Even more so than it ever was as a dad.

Christmas sermons. Advent candles. Christmas Eve candlelight services. Christmas parties. Expectations. And that's just the pastor part. 

Trying to keep my own focus on Jesus during Christmas is hard enough. But to try and help a congregation of people, no matter how large or small, to keep their eyes on Jesus, too, is a daunting task.

Factor in turmoil, financial difficulties, interpersonal conflict, and it becomes nearly impossible.

Oh! How I long for those first 8 or 9 Christmases!

My grandma's fudge. Aunt Imogene's Hello Dollies. Uncle Bill's silly excuses for being late.

Waiting for Santa. (Santa came to our house early on Christmas Eve. We were told we were his first stop!)

Now, I'm the grandpa. We still put out stockings for the whole family, as seen below:


Now I delight in watching my grandkids open their gifts. Now I look forward to the whole family gathered around the table for Christmas lunch. For the past several years, I have grilled steaks for our lunch. That is my personal gift to the family.

But, it is all about Jesus. Immanuel. God with us. And that is the point. God became a man and dwelt among men on earth. He lived a sinless life. He suffered and bled and died on a cross. He was buried in a borrowed tomb and rose again three days later. He ascended to Heaven and we wait, expectantly, for His return. Maranatha!

Put your faith in Jesus. Trust Him. I promise you'll be the best Christmas you've ever had!

Monday, August 26, 2013

Dad's Obituary

Robert (Bob) Boyne
Sunday, January 06, 1935 ---- Friday, August 23, 2013
Robert P. “Bob” Boyne was born January 6, 1935, in Sapulpa, Oklahoma, to Harold William “Bud” and Charlotte Lottie (Quintar) Boyne. He died Friday, August 23, 2013, in Muskogee, Oklahoma, at the age of 78 years, surrounded by his wife and family. Bob was reared and educated in Sapulpa and graduated with the Sapulpa High School Class of 1953. He continued his education attending Northeastern State University in Tahlequah, Oklahoma. Affectionately known at “Big Daddy” to his family, he spent much of his working life as a salesman with Consolidated Freightways, and was recognized as Outstanding District Salesman. He was married December 21, 1978, in Tulsa, Oklahoma, to Audrey Jo Saylors. Big Daddy was a member of the Knights of Columbus and served as Navigator and Grandmaster. He enjoyed a variety of pastimes including golf, hunting, fishing, bird watching, feeding deer, and playing Santa. He had served as a board member with the Cherokee Rural Water District #1 and also was Past President of the Ranger Creek Yacht Club. He and his wife enjoyed hosting a Small Faith Group Bible study for more than 10 years.
Loving family members include:
His wife; Jo, of the home
Son; Michael Boyne, of Inola, Oklahoma
Son; Patrick Boyne and wife Debbi, of Tulsa
Son; Rick Boyne and wife Sally, of Wagoner, Oklahoma
Daughter; Pam Goodell and husband David, of Owasso, Oklahoma
Son; Brandon Childress and wife Elizabeth, of Fayetteville, Arkansas
Seven grandchildren
Seven great grandchildren
Numerous nieces and nephews and a host of friends.
Brother; Don Boyne and wife Mary Louise, of Sapulpa, Oklahoma
He was preceded in death by his parents, and sister, Nancy Boyne Settle.
Visitation will be held from 5:00-7:00, Tuesday, August 27, 2013, at St. Joseph Catholic Church in Muskogee with Rosary service beginning at 7:00. Funeral Mass will be held 11:00 Wednesday, August 28, 2013, at St. Joseph Catholic Church with Father Richard Bradley, Father Bryan Brooks and Father Michael Knipe officiating. Serving as casket bearers will be Patrick Walker, Alan Zbabital, Carlisle Witherell, Charles Munch, Sandy Todd, and Thomas Greuel. Graveside services will be held 2:30 Wednesday afternoon at Green Hill Cemetery in Sapulpa, Oklahoma. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to the St. Joseph Knights of Columbus Council 962. Arrangements and services were entrusted to Mowery Funeral Service of Owasso.

Thursday, August 22, 2013

Dad's Caring Bridge

We recently found out that Dad has stage 4 pancreatic cancer. It has spread to his liver, lungs, and bones.

It was just a few weeks ago that he was up, around, and riding around the neighborhood on his 4 wheeler.

Today, he is fighting for his life and only has days, if not hours, to live.

We have established a Caring Bridge account for him to keep everyone up to date.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/BobBoyne

Prayers for God's mercy on him and strength for my mom is much appreciated.

I really hate cancer.

Monday, December 26, 2011

A Visit to the Nina and Pinta

On December 4, 2011, we visited the Nina and Pinta replicas which were docked at the Three Rivers Harbor in Muskogee, OK.  It was cold, but it was cool....

Here are the best pictures:

The Pinta

Boyne family and La Nina

Sailing ropes on the Pinta

Riggings on La Nina

On Board La Pinta


Emily on deck on La Pinta

Audrey in the cabin of La Nina

Boyne Family with La Pinta

Other Fun Christmas Pictures


Cookie Ministry Packages for Wagoner County Prisoners
Guns at the Sunday School Teachers' Christmas Party
Sammy with his bottle of Welch's Sparkling!

Me with a very young Santa....

Katie Fallen (Trimm) and Audrey singing "O Come O Come Emanuel"

Jacob Mathews and Audrey performing "Little Drummer Boy"

My Favorite 2011 Christmas Pictures

In no particular order, here are my favorite family pictures from Christmas 2011.

Merry Christmas!


My daughters with their great-grandmother.

I saw Mommy kissing Santa Claus!

My grandmother and Santa

My mother-in-law, Juanita Woolman


My daughters with Santa


My great-nephews, Eric and Landon
My sister, Pam Goodell, and her family

Thursday, November 24, 2011

Happy Thanksgiving!

Today is American Thanksgiving Day!

I am so thankful to God for His many blessings! Especially His salvation through Jesus Christ!

I am so thankful to God for my family! My wife is a wonderful friend, help-mate, soul-mate, and ministry partner; my children are beautiful young women of God of whom I am thrilled to be their father!

I am so thankful to God for my church family! I couldn't ask for a better church to pastor than Immanuel Southern!

I am so thankful to God for my country! What a wonderful Christian heritage we have! What wonderful freedoms we enjoy!

I am so thankful to God for my friends! God has surrounded me with Godly people to encourage me and keep me going!

I am so thankful to God for my health!

I am so thankful to God for so many other things, too numerous to mention here!

Thank you, Father, for your many blessings!

Monday, September 05, 2011

More Labor Day Fun

We went out to the lake yesterday and had fun with some of the extended family. The temperatures dropped significantly this weekend and the time out on the pontoon boat was excellent!

Big Daddy horsing around with Audrey
Yours truly hamming it up for the camera
Audrey, Emily, and Liz
A Beautiful Sunset on Ranger Creek
Looking back over the cove
Even though it wasn't "cold" we decided to have a wiener roast.


There was a LOT of dry brush!
We even cooked a some chili
Kelsey, Emily, and Dad

Liz and Audrey
James, Brandon, Liz, and Audrey

Emily posing